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I hate my fat vagina

hate my fat vagina 5 hate my fat vagina 4 I hate my fat vaginaI’m 32 years old and I hate my fat vagina. I weigh 185 lbs and I have included a picture of my upper body so that you can see my vagina in perspective. It sticks out a lot to the point where I can’t wear any skin-tight pants or a swimsuit. I have not seen anything like it on your site, most of the women are not overweight and do not have so much excess fat down there.

It is fairly common among larger women to have more fat in the vulva area (as with other areas of the body). Weight distribution is not limited to only certain parts of the body and not others.

That said, from where I’m sitting, there does not appear to be anything that is a major cause for concern. If you would like to lose some of the excess fat in your vulva area, a general weight loss plan may be helpful.

With regard to your comment that most pictures on this site are of women with lower levels of fat, this site is for all women. I don’t have control over who decides to make a submission, but I welcome submissions from all women irrespective of their physiology and body types.

Clare xo 

My labia minora has a greyish black tint

labia minora has a greyish black tintI am 22 years old. My labia minora has a greyish black tint at certain areas, which I went in to get checked out, and my doctor said it was perfectly normal and that everything looked fine. I am now in a sexual relationship and he has never said anything about it, but I am constantly worried about what he may be secretly thinking. I only have sex with the lights dimmed or off so that it is not that obvious.

Based on your picture, your vulva looks normal and healthy. Spend some time looking through the submissions on this site and you will see that there is a big spectrum of variations in labia minora pigmentation, and it is very common to have darker skin in that area. 

If your partner is mature and genuinely into you, he won’t have a problem with the colour of your labia and will love you for you. The more important thing is for you to love you for you.

Clare xo

Unequal labia lengths

Almost all of my friends, myself included, have discovered that we have unequal labia lengths. I’ve been doing quite a bit of research as well, and it’s just about the most natural thing in the world. Its kind of like birthmarks or moles. It just IS. Be proud chicas 😉 Your body loves to be loved 🙂

Thanks for sharing! I absolutely love your positive attitude!

Clare xo

Vulva art project – Darkened labia minora and anus

darkened labia minora and anusMany aesthetic clinics offer anal bleaching as a cosmetic treatment, even through the use of bleaching products in such a sensitive area can be harmful to the skin. The fourteenth picture in the vulva art project series is called Darkened Labia Minora and Anus. It is aimed at showcasing and celebrating the normal variations in pigmentation that many women have.

If you would like to participate in the vulva art project, reach out to me at


Female with white pubic hair

I am a healthy 26 year old female with white pubic hair. When I first noticed it I freaked out! I am blonde and I have no white or gray hair on my head, only down there. My husband is my high school sweetheart and we have been together since I was 17. I am mortified to tell him about this and have decided to trim and shave my pubic hair as much as I can without looking like a 8 year old girl. Is this normal? What can I do to fix this?

You are not alone. Many women experience graying of their pubic hair during their lives, which can begin anytime from their teenage years to their older years.

There are many factors which can cause this.

Genetics is the main cause among many women. A diet lacking in vitamin B or protein can cause also premature graying on the body, so you could try taking vitamin B supplements and increasing your protein intake. Another possible cause is stress and anxiety, so minimizing your stress level may help to slow down the development of gray / white pubic hair.

Many women who experience graying of their pubic hair are completely healthy, and it is generally not something to be concerned about from a health perspective.

Clare xo

Proud of my vagina

proud of my vagina

24 years old and proud of my vagina. It may not be all neat and tucked in but it’s mine and gives me a lot of pleasure. Want to share as long as it’s anonymous.

Beautiful <3

Thank you for contributing to the project!

All posts are published anonymously – I have a strict policy against divulging any personal details on the site.

Clare xo



New protections on the site

I have implemented new protections to prevent any content from being copied from this site and published elsewhere.

Visitors to the site are now unable to right click or double-click on images and other content to make copies of it. If they attempt to do so, the message “Content is protected!!” comes up and no copies can be made.

I also have a strict policy against disclosing any names or other personal information of submitters in any content published on the site.

This is all part of making the site a safe space for women to share their stories and photos with other women, and spread the important message that this site is aimed at spreading.

My landing strip and labia

my landing strip and labia25 years old. Thought I’d share a pic of my landing strip and labia. I used to grow my pubic hair out to hide my big labia but thanks to your site I have become confident enough to shave that area. My partner loves my new look and so do I. Thank you so much for everything that you are doing with the site. You are literally a life saver for many women.

I’m so happy to hear that my site has helped to improve your self-confidence levels 🙂 Its messages like yours that encourage me to keep the project going and to build the project from strength to strength.

Thank you for your lovely contribution.

Clare xo

Vulva art project – vagina on canvas

vagina on canvasHere is the thirteenth installment in the vulva art project series called Vagina on Canvas. It features a photo of a vulva with spread labia minora on a textured artist’s canvas, with text overlaid it.

If you would like to know more about the project or to be featured in it, contact me at